October 9th: Beresheet
THIS WEEK IN THE TORAH
Rabbi David E. Ostrich
The following is Rabbi Ostrich’s Yom Kippur Morning Sermon.
One of Jewish Mysticism’s most curious teachings involves something called . צִמְצוּםThe Hebrew word for contraction or voluntary shrinking, Tzimtzum is used to explain how a God who once filled the entire cosmos made room for Creation.
Before Creation, God was all there was, as we sing: אֲדוֹן עוֹלָם אֲשֶׁר מָלַךְ, בְּטֶֽרֶם כָּל יְצִיר נִבְרָא...
“The Lord of All ruled before anything had been created…”
וְאַחֲרֵי כִּכְלוֹת הַכֹּל, לְבַדּוֹ יִמְלוֹךְ נוֹרָא.
and after all has ceased to be, still will God gloriously rule.”
As Rabbi Isaac Luria imagined it, pre-Creation God was perfect and complete, but there was nonetheless a yen, a lacking, a desire. God wondered how godliness would do on its own: how a creation other than the Creator could function and develop and hopefully manifest goodness. So, in order to make room for this “other-than-God-ness”—one which would hopefully learn to manifest godliness, the Infinite God voluntarily contracted and left a spot in the universe for what we know as Creation.
Were it not for God’s voluntary Tzimtzum, there would be no room for Creation—for us. And were it not for God’s voluntary giving up of control over some things in the Universe, we would have no agency. It is only through God’s contraction and “permission” that we are allowed autonomy, and therein lies the rub.
Our freedom to make choices means that we are free to make both good choices and bad choices. God is thus left waiting and hoping. Sometimes God is proud of Creation’s decisions. Other times, God wishes we would do better.
Making good choices is the business of religion and ethics and even government—the goal being to expedite the flowing of God’s values, fairness, and kindness into our deeds and our lives. Sometimes, we focus on laws and commandments. If we follow the rules, then we are doing what we are supposed to do. Sometimes, we focus more on attitude and motivations, cultivating a sense of goodness and nobility that can burst forth when given the opportunity. Sometimes, we focus on Tradition, figuring that our ancestors were closer to God than we are, and that they knew better. Sometimes, we focus on what is new—realizing that some of the problems of the world are because of laws and decisions of the past. We then blaze forward with what seems wise in this moment.
Within every approach, however, there is the tension between Yetzer Tov (our innate urge to be altruistic and kind) and Yetzer HaRa (our urge to seize whatever we can). It is a conflict that rages within as we try to choose good more often than selfishness. And, even if we make good choices ourselves, we still have to deal with the damage that others’ bad choices bring. There are many channels for godliness to flow into the world, and there are many places the channels can be blocked.
Rabbi Marcia Prager, a modern mystic, offers an interesting observation on this dynamic and sees it as a part of God’s קְדֻשָׁה / Holiness. When the Torah says that God is קָדוֹשׁ /Holy, it means that God is separate and different from everything else. And, since everything else is either present in a given time and place or not, God’s difference is that God is both present and not-present in every place and at every moment. As I understand this mysticism, it means that God is potentially present at every moment—but that it is up to us to allow godliness to flow into our lives and through our deeds. When we allow God’s Influence into the world, God is present. But, when we deny access to God’s Influence, it is as though God is not there at all.
When we activate God’s Presence, allowing it to manifest in our lives, there is joy in heaven. But, when we do not, there is a cosmic sigh of disappointment. That is why we have holy days like Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, days that remind us to tap into the Mind of God and the Goodness of God and to bring God into the world once again. It is our holy work.
In the Torah portion, we read: קְדשִׁ֣ים תִּֽהְי֑וּ כִּ֣י קָד֔וֹשׁ אֲנִ֖י ה' אֱלֹֽקיכֶֽם:
“You shall be holy for I the Lord your God am holy.”
It is a daunting thought—that we should be like God, but that seems to be the Divine Plan: we are to follow God’s actions and attitudes. So, if God practices Tzimtzum, shrinking to make room for others, how might that be for us? How could we do some personal contracting, and how might that be good?
One form of personal Tzimtzum involves emptying ourselves of excess ego—and making room for God’s values. We often think of prayer as a conversation with God—thanks, appreciation, or requests, but the modern thinker, Rabbi Rami Shapiro, speaks of עֲבוֹדָה / Worship as “self-emptying prayer and meditation,” of opening ourselves to God’s influence. Rather than just expressing ourselves, prayer can also be a way of shrinking a bit of ourselves to make room for godliness. Perhaps this is what the Baal Shem Tov had in mind when he observed, “There is no room for God in those who are full of themselves.” And perhaps this was the thought of the Kotzker, Reb Menachem Mendel Morgensztern, when he agreed. “Where is God? Wherever we let Him in.”
A second reason for personal Tzimtzum involves its effect on others. Before Creation, God was perfectly capable of doing everything perfectly, but the Tzimtzum allowed us to be. Could it not be similar for us—though obviously in a less cosmic way? Think of how holding ourselves in check can allow someone else to shine. Whether we are parents, teachers, administrators, supervisors, or coaches, sometimes the most helpful thing we can do is to step back and allow others take responsibility and action. Let them find the necessary resources to mobilize. Let them muster the confidence do something significant.
Admittedly, this can be difficult. We must judge whether someone is ready or requires supervision. There is also the question of others not performing up to our standards. Remember that old warning: “If you want something done right, do it yourself.” It can be worth heeding—if we are talking about fulfilling our responsibilities, but, if our responsibility is training someone else, then “doing it ourselves” may not be as helpful as we wish. What if being too insistent and too prescriptive prevents other people from developing their abilities and bringing out their good ideas? In other words, what if the demand for perfection becomes an excuse for egotism? There are clearly times when we need to maintain control, but there are other times when the best thing we teachers and bosses can do is to stand aside and let others give it a try. Over-functioning is not helpful, and thus some Tzimtzum/shrinking in leadership may be a good practice.
A third application of personal Tzimtzum is in politics. Though we may disagree vehemently with some friends, neighbors, and relatives, most of them are not “total idiots.” Most are intelligent and experienced people who, for a variety of reasons, see issues differently. As fervently as we know that we have the truth, some Tzimtzum—holding ourselves back—can allow us to listen and think, and perhaps even increase our knowledge and sensitivities. As we all grapple to understand the complexities of the world, we are inevitably limited in how much we know. Yes, limited—and therefore ready for a little humility. It seems to me that humility is a kind of Tzimtzum, a way for us to emulate God. Shrinking our certainty—and acknowledging that we are not the world experts on everything—allows us to listen and to be “better citizens” in our families and community. It can actually improve our awareness and thinking and help us come up with better and more expansive solutions.
The words of Leviticus, קְדשִׁ֣ים תִּֽהְי֑וּ כִּ֣י קָד֔וֹשׁ אֲנִ֖י ה' אֱלֹֽקיכֶֽם:
“You shall be holy for I the Lord your God am holy,” call on us to emulate God. There are the specifics like feeding the hungry, welcoming the stranger, comforting the stricken, bringing justice and peace to the world, but there is more. Think about how all of these mitzvot are part of God’s Tzimtzum. Though God is אֲדוֹן עוֹלָם, the Lord of All the World, God has entrusted us with many of the most holy tasks, offering us opportunities to be: יָדֶיךָ בָּעוֹלָם לְהָבִיא בְּרָכוֹת־הַשָּׁמַֽיִם לְכָל־הָאָרֶץ,
“God’s Hands in the world, bringing the blessings of Heaven to all the earth.”
Let us involve ourselves in this holy work, filling in the moral vacuum with our godliness, and joining God in Tzimtzum as we gift others with the blessings of thought, agency, and fulfillment. May we strive to be קְדשִׁ֣ים / Holy, just as the Lord our God is holy.
